“Youth is a blunder; Manhood a struggle, Old Age a regret.” Benjamin Disraeli, 19th Century British statesman.
My youth was a blunder, as I did not appreciate the value of following God’s direction. Had I done so, I would have been far more peaceful as a medical student. I admired the tranquility of a Christian friend, who, I keep up with to this day, half a century later.
I suppose manhood began once I became a medical examiner in Baltimore. Sure, I struggled. It was a challenge to become drier behind my ears, a daily struggle. I slept well, but but I had an ongoing tension.
Is my old age a regret? No. Thirty-eight years after turning my face towards Jesus, I am at peace. The journey makes more sense and includes more perspective.
I know this: If I have no pivotal problem in my life, if I wait about two weeks, that will change. It’s discouraging, but God softens the blows and blesses me with the serenity required to, usually, sleep through the night